My Friend, and drinking

[High on Jesus]

I was at a party last night, and there was alcohol, and my friend was dirnking, they are only 14, and when I talked to them they said that they WOULD drink again, at other parties.

Also when I was talking to them, our friendship was sort of thrown away. So um, I don't like asking people to pray for me but, Please pray for My friend and their drinking, and for me and them to get our friendship back, I know it will never be the same, they were my BEST FRIEND but its all gone

P.S. I wasn't drinking, so don't get any ideas

[bethany54]

OK you are 14 too I assume. This means that you haven't encountered this sort of situation very often and perhaps it is the first time even. Your friend's parents need to be informed. Talk to your parents first and get their support when you talk to your friend's parents. You parents will no doubt be very proud of you. Many kids your age die every year from alcohol poisoning at parties. The reason to tell your friend's parents is not to get him or her into trouble but so that parent and child can sit down together and get educated. Your friend is already mad at you so you have very little to lose but if you do nothing there is a real possibility that your friend will be lost forever and you will feel guilty for a long time to come.


A long time before you were born, I had concerns about how to know what the right thing to do was in several situations. My friend told me When in doubt, do the lasting thing. The lasting thing here is to try and make sure that your friend is around long enough to fight and make up with you for years to come.

[light4mypath]

bethany54 said:

OK you are 14 too I assume. This means that you haven't encountered this sort of situation very often and perhaps it is the first time even. Your friend's parents need to be informed. Talk to your parents first and get their support when you talk to your friend's parents. You parents will no doubt be very proud of you. Many kids your age die every year from alcohol poisoning at parties. The reason to tell your friend's parents is not to get him or her into trouble but so that parent and child can sit down together and get educated. Your friend is already mad at you so you have very little to lose but if you do nothing there is a real possibility that your friend will be lost forever and you will feel guilty for a long time to come.


A long time before you were born, I had concerns about how to know what the right thing to do was in several situations. My friend told me When in doubt, do the lasting thing. The lasting thing here is to try and make sure that your friend is around long enough to fight and make up with you for years to come.

I agree 100% with Bethany and will keep you and your friend uplifted. (((((HUGS)))))